During the summer of 2010 my life was point where there was some breathing room. My business was going well and did not require my undivided attention. Finances, although not in the realm of complete abundance, were stable and strong. And although I would not have chosen it to be that way, I was not in relationship \u2013 or even dating anyone.<\/p>\n
So this triple convergence of time, money, and nobody to consider opened the door to what may be the first real \u2018hobby\u2019 of my life. I started sailing.<\/p>\n
I had been sailing, perhaps, a dozen times in the last few years with my friend Bruce. He was a member of a Boston sailing club and frequently invited me down. This year, though, he was letting his membership lapse as he was traveling for most of the season. If I was to continue sailing, I would need to join on my own; take the classes, pass the tests, and make the hour to hour-and-a-half drive to Boston several times a week. A slight shift in my personal perspective turned \u201cthat endless drive to Boston\u201d into \u201cBoston is just down the road.\u201d A monthly parking space, a few audio books, and a familiarity with the traffic patterns and shortcuts made short work of the otherwise daunting reverse-commute.<\/p>\n
I sailed throughout the summer, moving to larger and more complicated boats as I graduated each class. With every step, a new level of oneness of with the planet; the wind, the tides, the weather unfolded before me as I hoisted halyards, trimmed sheets, called out my points of sail, and tacked and jibed around the islands of Boston Harbor. The wind in my face was breathtaking.<\/p>\n
Near the end of August I took my final class of the summer — Night Sailing. It was in that dark that I opened my eyes.<\/p>\n
Sailing comes at a particularly appropriate time in my life, as these things often do.<\/p>\n
As I round the half-century mark, my life begins a shift from \u201cMake it Happen\u201d to \u201cLet it Happen.\u201d A lifelong focus on accomplishment, setting goals, striving and winning has shifted toward feeling the flow of my life and moving with it.
\nRow, Row, Row your boat
\nGently down the stream
\nMerrily, Merrily, Merrily, Merrily
\n\u2026<\/p>\n
I turned my face into the wind, letting the whistling breeze over my ears speak to me.<\/p>\n
The Wind said, \u201cI am a sea-breeze today. I\u2019m coming from the East, from the cool sea to the warm land. The heat of the city causes the warming air to rise to puffy white Cumulus clouds above. I am rushing in across the ocean to take its place.\u201d<\/p>\n
I pulled the rudder slightly toward me, heading upwind to leave the harbor. The mainsail luffed a bit as I did, so I tightened the main sheet. I could feel the pull on the boat as the now neatly trimmed sail caught the wind just right. The jib could have been trimmed as well, but I let it be. My sails were set in a \u201cClose Haul\u201d tack and I was heading nearly upwind.<\/p>\n
\u201cGoing with the flow\u201d does not suggest the passivity of being blown around to wherever the flow happens to be travelling. I still choose my destinations but I move in partnership with the forces around me. It\u2019s dancing with the wind rather than fighting it.<\/p>\n
In business, this suggests that I look at what my customers want and have a clear picture of the skills and desires of my employees. If I take my own ego out of the picture then I am no longer trying to sell customers what I want them to buy and extorting employees to do what I want them to do. Rather I have a team that wants nothing more than to spend their day giving customers just what they\u2019ve come to my website to buy.<\/p>\n
In relationship, I have no idea what this means. Finding out is, perhaps, my next journey.<\/p>\n
As the sun sets, the wind dies completely. This is how a sea-breeze always behaves. When the city cools, the air stops rising, the sea turns to glass, and the air goes still and silent. Out here on the water there is not a sound \u2013 no birds, no crickets, no deep thrum of distant engines throbbing at the edge of perception through the ground.<\/p>\n
When the stars come out in the total silence, it is a symphony. And they move in the night, as if blown by the wind that has, until morning, abandoned me.<\/p>\n
Now it\u2019s time to start the motor and come home. When I\u2019m a more skillful sailor I\u2019ll sleep out here. Perhaps it will be silent and still like tonight. More likely, though, there\u2019ll be a slight wind and a swell to the sea and I\u2019ll rock slowly, listening to the creak of the boat, the tapping of the halyard on the mast, and the lapping of the waves on the hull.
\n\u2026Life is but a dream.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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